‘What a pity it is, a young couple like you having a child like this! Do you want to put her in a home?’
Such, forty-three years ago, were the words of a paediatrician meeting for the first time the parents of a Down’s syndrome child. It was only by accident, and only gradually, they had discovered that their new baby was different. The day they left the hospital the nurse who accompanied them to the car had parted with the words, ‘’If you need help in any way, don’t hesitate to call us.’ The tone of voice, they had thought, was odd, even ominous. Then a friend mentioned to another friend how sad it was about Annie Mary’s baby, and so the story spread, until one day yet another friend called to express her sympathy.
Most of the pieces posted on this blog began life as pieces in my ‘Footnotes’ column in the West Highland Free Press. The whole world now knows that that column is no more; and thanks to Brian Wilson, they also know the reason why. Via a phone-call from the Editor, the paper’s owners (its staff) put me on a warning. I had crossed a line, and there must be no repeat. There was little point in writing if I couldn’t say what I thought, and so, with only as much hesitation as was decent, I gave it up.Read more about 'Brian Wilson and the Free Press'...